Players Are Hurt

I should get a job as an Associated Press sports writer. Apparently, you’re allowed to reword the same sentence across multiple stories over and over and over again.

April 1st

Yankees stars Alex Rodriguez, Curtis Granderson and Mark Teixeira also are on the disabled list.

April 3rd

New York already has five All-Stars on the disabled list: shortstop Derek Jeter, third baseman Alex Rodriguez, first baseman Mark Teixeira, outfielder Curtis Granderson and pitcher Phil Hughes.

April 4th

Brett Gardner and Francisco Cervelli homered for the Yankees, providing some unexpected power to a depleted lineup missing the “sore four” – Derek Jeter, Alex Rodriguez, Mark Teixeira and Curtis Granderson.

April 5th

The Yankees have five All-Stars on the disabled list with Jeter joined by third baseman Alex Rodriguez (hip surgery), first baseman Mark Teixeira (wrist), outfielder Curtis Granderson (broken forearm) and pitcher Phil Hughes (back pain).

April 6th

Hughes was one of five Yankees All-Stars on the disabled list with Jeter, third baseman Alex Rodriguez, first baseman Mark Teixeira and outfielder Curtis Granderson…

April 7th

The Yankees don’t have their best players in the lineup because All-Stars Derek Jeter, Alex Rodriguez, Mark Teixeira and Curtis Granderson are on the disabled list…

April 8th

Cano connected in the fifth and sixth for the Yankees, who are trying to hold on until All-Stars Derek Jeter, Alex Rodriguez, Curtis Granderson and Mark Teixeira get healthy and come off the disabled list.

Seven reminders across seven game recaps. WE GET IT! THE YANKEES HAVE PEOPLE ON THE DISABLED LIST! In other news, recaps over at Yankees.com are much better and recaps over at It’s About the Money are the best.

Leaping Like Impalas

I recently finished an excellent little book called “Jesus, My Father, The CIA, and Me: A Memoir… of Sorts” by Ian Morgan Cron. As the title suggests, it is a memoir (of sorts) about a young boy who grew up with a largely absent father who worked for the CIA. Cron is an excellent story-teller with a flair for a certain sarcastic humor that I couldn’t get enough of. My favorite story had to be the below excerpt, in which he describes his first encounter in a more, shall we say, enthusiastic church setting.

The service had already started when we got into the sanctuary. I was there all of five minutes before I realized that Tyler’s explanation about this experience being different was grossly understated. Episcopalians pride themselves on restraint and single-digit golf handicaps. They don’t jump, sing, and wave their hands over their heads unless they’re being electrocuted or thrown from a plane. Neither do Episcopalians frolic around sanctuaries, brandishing on raised poles big banners with tongues of fire and doves embroidered on them. Their services don’t include generously proportioned middle-aged women leaping like impalas down the aisles, trailing colored streamers in their wake (“dancing in the Spirit,” as Tyler called it). I saw investment bankers speaking in tongues and women dressed in boiled wool suits who resembled Barbara Bush being “slain in the Spirit.” It looked to me like a mob of well-sugared five-year-olds dancing the hokey-pokey, only less organized.[1]

“Generously proportioned middle-aged women leaping like impalas.” I nearly fell out of my chair after reading that. Anyway, it’s a fun book and you should read it.


  1. Cron, Ian Morgan (2011–06–07). Jesus, My Father, The CIA, and Me: A Memoir… of Sorts (pp. 170–171). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition.  ↩

It Keeps Happening

The unthinkable has happened. Again. Thus far, 2012 has left 27 dead in Connecticut, 7 dead in Wisconsin, 12 dead in Colorado, 7 dead in California, 6 dead in Washington, and 7 dead in Minnesota – and these are only the mass shootings.[1] One has to wonder when we’ll stop categorizing such events as ‘unthinkable’, because right now, they are anything but. Of the 12 deadliest shootings in U.S. history, 6 have happened since 2007. These events are, tragically, more than just thinkable, they are regular and we need to do something about it. Now is not the time for platitudes and rhetoric, it is the time for meaningful action. Yes, I’m suggesting legislation that restricts the ownership of guns, but first I want to make a few things clear.

Some would say that now is not the time to talk about this. I disagree. Friday was not the time to talk about this. Friday was a day to pray for peace for the victims. Friday was a day to weep over the death of the innocent. Friday was a day to hold your loved ones close. But Friday has passed. We do not expect the families directly involved to cease their mourning, nor do we ever expect it. We do not expect them to wipe away their tears and participate in this discussion. But as their neighbors, as their fellow countryman, today is the day to stand up in their place and move to affect real change, change that starts making these events ‘unthinkable’ again. If it isn’t these events that finally push us to make a change, than what will? 5 days after President Kennedy was assassinated, a bill was introduced to restrict mail-order sales of guns (which is how Oswald obtained the rifle used to shoot the President). I mention this to highlight the simple truth that legislation is a response to real-life events and right now, nothing is more real than what happened in Newtown and nothing deserves a more swift response.

Others would say that violence is the problem, not guns. I partially agree. The culture of violence in America is deeply rooted in nearly every crevice of our society and it needs to be addressed. That said, deeply rooted flaws are not eradicated overnight. It may be years, even decades, before the pervasiveness of violence could be snuffed out. Legislation that better regulates gun ownership doesn’t happen overnight either, but it certainly doesn’t have to take years. It could be done within a matter of months. The 535 elected officials in Congress may not be able to reverse a culture’s glorification of violence within the next few months, but they can enact laws that make the ownership of military-grade weaponry illegal. Guns may not be America’s only problem, but to say that they are not part of the problem would be a willful ignorance of the facts (more on that in a moment).

One last point of clarification: we must be careful to avoid an over response that misses the point and does little to actually prevent mass shootings. If you’ve been through an airport anytime in the last decade, you’ll know what I mean. 9/11 was a horrific, godless event. We were right to declare a worldwide war on terrorism, but we were wrong to make people take off their shoes before every flight. The TSA is a joke of a security measure and that is not the kind of response anyone is advocating for.[2] We’re looking for real-change with visible effects, not a costly charade. All clarifications being made, let’s deal with some of the claims routinely made by defenders of freedom and the second-amendment.

First, there is the saying that “guns don’t kill people, people kill people”. That’s great and all, but people kill people with guns. As such, we should lessen the number of guns in the possession of people! This argument is often followed by a statement about how guns are just tools and if we legislate guns, we’ll have to legislate kitchen knives, novelty swords, metal pipes, 2 by 4’s, and any other object that could be used to kill someone. Here’s the thing though: a knife is no where near as deadly as the Sig Sauer and Glock handguns used in Connecticut or the 12-guage tactical shotgun used in Colorado. Coincidentally, on the same Friday as the tragedy in Newtown, a man broke into an elementary school in the Henan province of China and stabbed 22 children. It was another senseless act of violence. The silver lining? All 22 victims are still alive. You know why? China has strict laws regarding gun ownership and knives aren’t as deadly as guns. Stop stating the obvious about “people killing people” and “guns are only objects” as if some great philosophical point has been proven and all discussion must therefore end. Guns are objects used by people to kill large numbers of other people in a shockingly short amount of time. The same cannot be said about a butter knife.

Next, you’ll likely hear an argument that “car accidents cause more deaths than guns. Should we outlaw cars too?” The data is true, more people die in car accidents, but the premise is ridiculous. First, I would point out that the primary purpose of a car is transportation, whereas the primary purpose of a gun is to quickly and accurately exact death upon something or someone. In other words, we’re not comparing apples to apples here. Greg Sargent, of the Washington Post, summed it up best though, “Yes, cars kill people too. But few would advocate for getting rid of traffic lights and crosswalks in the name of freedom.” So, while you have to practice a certain amount of driving and pass a few exams before being granted the freedom of wielding an object of transportation, the same is not true before you’re allowed to wield an object of death.

Speaking of freedom, the next argument you’re likely to hear is the second-amendment. To avoid any confusion, I’ve quoted it below.

“A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.”

I’m not a constitutional scholar, but I do know that when the framers of this great nation penned this section, their definition of “arms” was a rifle that needed to be refilled with gunpowder and a bullet after a single shot – it was not a Smith & Wesson M&P15 semi-automatic rifle (like the one used in Aurora, CO). The times have changed and we have to stop ignoring that. Additionally, it must be stated that the right to “keep and bear arms”, as defined by the framers, was for the purpose of maintaining a “well regulated militia”.[3] Today’s landscape of gun ownership looks like anything but “regulated”, much less a functioning “militia”. A look through our early history will also show that at least 10 states in the 1800’s (including Kentucky, Louisiana, and Texas) had laws that specifically outlawed the carrying of concealed weapons. For more on this aspect, see Jill Lepore’s excellent piece in the New Yorker, from which I have greatly leaned upon in this section. The point I’d like to make here though is that legislation that increases regulation of gun ownership does not have to impede on the second-amendment. My vision is not for every sportsman to be forced to turn in his favorite hunting rifle. My vision is one in which the sportsman doesn’t need a semi-automatic assault rifle designed for combat in order to kill a deer. Or, in the famous words of Garry Wills, “One does not bear arms against a rabbit.

The last argument (or at least the last I’ll mention here) is that if the Newtown teachers had been armed, the killer could have been stopped before any damage was done. You might also hear it put like this, “The only thing that stops a bad guy with a gun is a good guy with a gun.” You might also hear that if more people carry guns, killers will be more “afraid” and “think twice” before going on a shooting spree. Basically, each sentiment seeks to state that more guns will equal less death. There is a lot to unpack in these statements, but we’ll start with research done by Lisa Hepburn and David Hemenway of the Harvard School of Public Health, which clearly states that “where there are more guns, both men and women are at higher risk for homicide, particularly firearm homicide.” Also of note is a graph by Duke University’s Kieran Healy which shows that America is at least twice as violent as other countries with OECD membership.[4] Couple that with Max Fisher’s findings that among the same group of countries, America easily has more guns per citizen than any other country, and you start to see a clear picture in which more guns does not equal less death.[5] Beyond the numbers, there is the common sense point that the deeply-troubled individuals who carry out mass shootings are probably not in any kind of state to “think twice” about what a gun-toting, hero-citizen would do to them. These murderers are not lauded as great “thinkers” and we’re giving them far too much credit to believe that they would be deterred by the existence of concealed-carry laws.[6] In short, the answer to a bad guy with a gun is to simply take away his access to a gun.[7]

It would be naive to say that this isn’t a complex issue, but I do not believe it to be so complex that we are forced to remain paralyzed by an illusion of freedom that the founders may or may not have envisioned. We are facing regular, mass shootings. Something has to change. I’m happy to know that Dianne Feinstein, Senator from California, will be introducing a bill to ban assault weapons on the first day of the new Congress. My hope is that the final product presented to the House and the Senate is more than just reactionary politicking. An assault weapons ban is a good start, but there are plenty of other measures, such as limiting the amount of ammunition a magazine can hold, banning military-grade ammunition that is designed to burst and cause maximum damage upon impact, and closing the gun-show loophole, that need to be considered.[8]

Even if you don’t agree with me, please take some time and consider taking these two actions:

  1. Educate yourself. The issue of gun-control is not going away and there are valid points to be heard on both sides of the issue. Again, even if you don’t agree with my words above, please do your civic duty and fully educate yourself on the topic. I have provided several links throughout this article and still plenty more below. Consider each resource carefully and honestly wrestle with what is presented.
  2. Write a local representative. Whether they like it or not, politicians work for you and I. The only way they’ll know how their constituents feel about this issue is if we tell them. You don’t have to write an essay, but a simple paragraph detailing where you stand could go a long way, especially if we all do it. Use this resource for getting in touch with your respective representatives.

If you’d like some quality, thought-provoking reading on both sides of the issue, I found the following links to be most helpful to me.

Further reading:

Battleground America

Assault Weapons Ban, Q&A

What Would ‘Meaningful Action’ Could Look Like?

To Keep and Bear Arms

Our Moloch

America, Guns, and Freedom (Part 1)

America, Guns, and Freedom (Part 2)

More Guns, More Mass Shootings—Coincidence?

The Case For More Guns

Obama According to the Brady Institute

The Shootings of 2012


  1. See the full list from the Washington Post here.  ↩
  2. For more TSA excitement, see these leaked images.  ↩
  3. If you really want to get into the linguistics of the second-amendment, Google the phrase “ablative absolute, second amendment”. I would recommend this quick opinion piece in the New York Times, this (much longer) piece in the New York Review of Books, or this series of tweets from the London Review of Books (make sure you read all 5 tweets).  ↩
  4. The graph excludes Estonia and Mexico.  ↩
  5. Many like to point to Switzerland and Israel as examples of countries with high gun ownership and low-crime. A recent study by Janet Rosenbaum, an assistant professor of epidemiology at the School of Public Health at the State University of New York (SUNY) Downstate Medical Center School, completely turns that assumption on its head. For more on her research, see this interview and the actual study.  ↩
  6. The counter-point to my argument is that, “Yes, mass killers are not great ‘thinkers’ and it would be foolish for us to assume that they would follow restrictive gun ownership laws”. It is a valid point, but here’s the thing: In my scenario, it would be considered criminal to own assault rifles. In the present state of affairs, the mass murderer is legally allowed to obtain whatever fire-power he so desires. The law is complicit with his use of that kind of fire-power. Criminals ignore laws against substance abuse, but no sane American is advocating that cocaine be legally sold on Amazon. Just because a criminal breaks the law doesn’t mean we shouldn’t have laws. We have to stop assuming that some effort would be pointless and therefore no effort should be taken at all.  ↩
  7. Don’t forget that putting more guns in the hands of civilians assumes that those civilians are all expert marksmen who could easily take down a crazed-killer in a moment of chaos. I think Mark Follman of Mother Jones put it best, “what are the odds that, say, a moviegoer with a pack of Twizzlers in one pocket and a Glock in the other would be mentally prepared, properly positioned, and skilled enough to take out a body-armored assailant in a smoke- and panic-filled theater?” Exactly.  ↩
  8. They are plenty of other helpful measures that could be implemented. See this article for a quick list.  ↩

The Art of Ending

Henry Wadsworth Longfollow once said “Great is the art of the beginning, but greater is the art of ending.” It’s a thought provoking statement and is the opening quote in a book I’ve been reading called “Necessary Endings” by Dr. Henry Cloud. I am working through some “endings” in my life right now, and as such I am finding it to be a deeply profound book that speaks to me on a number of levels. It may or may not have the same effect on you, but I recommend you give it a read through at some point in your life. Due to the simple cycles of life, there will be some point at which you need to end a relationship or walk away from a job or [insert any number of things that apply] and start out on a new course, a new direction. When those difficult times come, the principles and applications presented by Dr. Cloud will certaintly help you as you navigate those decisions.

One of the first concepts put forth in the book is that even though “endings” are sometimes difficult and painful, that is not an excuse to just not have them. Just becuase it might mean an awkward conversation or just becuase it entails sacrifices you don’t want to make does not mean that it is okay to just avoid them. Dr. Cloud uses an example of getting a nagging tooth pulled. The tooth is causing you a lot of discomfort, but just becuase you don’t want to experience the pain of having it pulled by the dentist doesn’t mean that it is the right decision to just deal with that discomfort for the rest of your life. Such a decision would just be stupid. Yeah, it might hurt to have the tooth pulled, but once it’s done, it’s done, you don’t have to worry about a constantly nagging tooth anymore. While the example might be trivial, the principle rings true; just becuase an ending is painful, does not mean it is okay to avoid it. Dr. Cloud puts it this way, “There is a big difference between hurt and harm. We all hurt sometimes in facing hard truths , but it makes us grow. It can be a source of huge growth. That is not harmful. Harm is when you damage someone. Facing reality is usually not a damaging expereince, even though it can hurt a little.”

For reasons I won’t extrapolate here, this simple concept really spoke to me. I cannot count how many times I have let the perceived pain of “ending” something, whether it be a relationship, a bad habit, or a rotten attitude, has hindered me from following through with that “ending”, even though in the long run it would have been extremely beneficial. As I sat in my big leather chair and let this simple concept seep into my heart and wander through the corridors of my past, I suddenly found myself thinking of Jesus and the cross. I thought out loud, “Wow, dying on the cross was an incredible “ending” for Jesus, one that was more difficult then I could ever imagine.” I began to remember how he had warned of his impending death to his closest friends in Matthew 26. I mean, take a moment and play that conversation through your mind.

Jesus: Hey guys, I’m going to die soon. And not only am I going to die, but I’m going to die in the most shamful of ways. I’m going to be publicy mocked, brutally beaten, and then hung up on a cross on the side of the road like thousands of other criminals.

Disciples: [Silence]

Jesus: But don’t worry guys, I will rise from the dead after three days and in the process make a way of salvation for the whole entire world.

Disciples: [More silence] Say that first part again; you’re going to die?

I don’t know about you, but it would take a significant amount of will power for me to be able to sit down and have that kind of conversation with anyone, let alone with my closest friends. I mean, I hated telling my mom when I got a bad grade at school and I recognize that my introverted personality has a lot to do with that, but still. You have to recognize that was one huge conversation to have. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, “I dropped the bomb on [insert person] today.” Well, this conversation is the new standard for “dropped the bomb”. There isn’t anyone who has ever disclosed such a massive dose of heart-wrenching news on another human being in the history of the world. Here is Jesus, the man who heals leprosy, who tells the wind and the waves what to do, and who claims to be the Son Of God, telling his closest friends that he is going to allow himself to be murdered.

Fast forwarding a little bit and switching perspectives, can you imagine how John must have felt as he sat at the foot of the cross, doing is best to console Mary, watching his closest friend slip away under the grip of death. This is the guy who he left his job for, his family for, his future for. He left everything he knew for this man named Jesus. This was the guy who was supposed to bring freedom to your nation. And here that man is, stripped naked, beaten beyond recognition, hanging on a cross and dying the death of a common criminal. I can only imagine John sitting there and whispering through the tears, “Why? Why is this happening right now? This is not the ending I had envisioned.”

Switching back to Jesus, now hanging on the cross with the sins of the world resting on his shoulders, he looks up to heaven and utters that ridiculous phrase, “Father, forgive them. They don’t know what they’re doing.” The ending is painful and dark, but in the midst of that Jesus feels it necessary to pronounce forgiveness over his executioners. And remember, he is willingly “ending” his life in this manner. He willingly walked this road, a road that has caused him to sweat drops of blood under the stress, to be beaten in such a way that chunks of flesh are violently ripped from his body, and to endure the full wrath of a holy God. This is the ending that he has chosen. As I think on these things, I cannot help but sit and weep. It moves me. I ask, “Why Jesus? Why would you willingly choose such an ending?” Of course, I know the answer to that question; I know that this ending was necessary for the salvation of the world. But right now, there is something about this ending that I cannot shake. I cannot so quickly jump to that answer without first taking time to recognize the mammoth implications of this most spectacular of endings. He will rise again in three days, but right now, this ending sucks. He will defeat death, but right now, in the silence following his last breath, this ending is the worst case scenario. The creator of the universe has just died. The one who brings forth life by the mere uttering of words is hanging lifeless on a wooden cross.

It was a painful ending that his friends didn’t initially understand. It was a gruesome ending that I struggle to visualize because of the sheer violence of the whole ordeal. But nonetheless, in spite of physical pain, in spite of confusing of his friends, it was an ending that Jesus willingly made. He knew that these temporary pain points would quickly make way for the biggest rescue operation ever done. He knew that there was no other way to rescue humanity then to walk the dark road of ending his life. His focus was crystal clear and in hindsight it is quite apparent that nothing would stop him, not even the emotional pain experienced by his own mother and his closest friends.

So with all of that said, I ask myself and I ask you an important question; what do you need to end in your life, right now? Is there a relationship that is sapping energy out of you? Is there a bad habit that is stunting your growth? Is there a job that is standing in the way of your God given purpose? Has the whisper of a sinful world enslaved your mind and imprisoned your imagination? Trust me, I’ll be the first to admit that I hate conflict and the idea of a painful ending just makes me want to roll my eyes and go watch a movie or some other mind-numbing activity, but as Dr. Cloud and as our savior, Jesus, have so aptly demonstrated, just because an ending is painful, does not mean that it is not necessary. If Jesus didn’t end his life at the cross, then He never would have risen on the third day and if you don’t let the dentist take out that nagging tooth, its going to nag you for the rest of your life. I encourage you to take some time to do two things today.

First, I encourage you to sit down and really contemplate the ending of Christ. Think about the courage that He had as He went head to head with sin and death. Think about the how He did that so that you might have life and have it more abundantly. Give thanks and take a moment to audibly praise Him for the sacrifice that He so willing endured on your behalf. Second, I encourage you to use his example as fuel and motivation to go and end that “something” in your life that you know so desperately needs to be ended. It might be painful, the conversation might be awkward, it might require a good dose of self-discipline, but it just might make way for the most incredible of beginnings. Or, as Dr. Cloud puts it, “Good cannot begin until bad ends.”


You can buy Dr. Cloud’s excellent book here.